Live Life Team
There are varieties of lines that guys typically use to illicit sex from women. One of the most common ways for young men to do this is to tell the young lady that he will literally die if he is not able to have sex with her. This is common only among young men and women because as we get older, we learn more about the facts of life.
The fact is that no, he is not going to die. He may be uncomfortable, his hormones may be raging and his primal instinct may be doing its level best to take over, but he will live. His extremities are not going to turn blue. Nothing is going to fall off. He is simply going to have to accept the word no. You should never feel guilty about saying no! If anything, you should practice saying it!
The fact is that people manipulate by nature. We will say extreme things to get what we want. I am sure you have promised to keep your room clean or never talk back if you could just get ungrounded a day earlier. How long did it take before you failed on that promise, Think of sex the same way.
No one is going to die if they do not get it. In fact, the only health risk involved comes with actually having sex. Be sure to let him know that you know better the next time he tries to convince you he is going to die if he does not have it. Better yet, offer to take him to the doctor straight away if he is so concerned about his health!
