Live Life Team
No one is really sure where some of the Filipino wedding beliefs came from, or how long ago they originated. Though many of them appear to be rooted in superstition, rather than scientific fact, they do tend to be interesting and are in common practice in many parts of the world.
A Filipino bride should not try on her gown before the ceremony. Tradition has it that if she does, the wedding will not take place. This might make fittings a bit difficult, but weighed against the alternative it is the better choice. Gifts are another issue. If knives or pointed objects are given, the marriage may fail. The giving of an “arinola” or chamber pot is considered to be good luck for the pair. At the ceremony, the groom should not sit in front of his bride. If he does his marriage will be difficult because she will constantly hen peck him.
Rain is considered good luck, so it is wished for on the wedding day. It is said to bring prosperity and happiness to the couple. Breaking a utensil also brings good luck. The groom should also arrive at the church ahead of his bride to bring good luck, peace and harmony to the marriage.
One tradition might also be considered a mixed blessing. At the wedding ceremony, two candles are lit by the couple and each sits next to a candle. The candle that goes out last is said to predict which of the pair will live the longest.
