Live Life Team
Most teenagers feel the need to fit in and not be made fun of. This can make things difficult when the person they love or care for is asking them to do something they don’t want to do. Often, they just can’t find a way to deny this request without feeling foolish or being made fun of. One way to do this is to ensure that the individual knows why they are denying this request. In this way, they can feel secure and justified as they make their stand.
When it comes to sex, there are many ways to say “no”. The best ways are the ones that are based on firm beliefs. If you are wondering about how you can say no, then ask yourself the questions below and use your answers to come up with ways you can say no.
Do you want to be a virgin when you marry,
Do you want to feel that you are 100% sure this is the person you want to have sex with,
Do you respect your body,
Do they respect your body,
Will the person still be with you if you don’t have sex with them,
These are just some of the questions to ask yourself. Hopefully, the answers will encourage you to think through your decision of whether or not to do it. No one should feel pressured to have sex. If someone is pressuring you, then chances are they are the wrong person for you.
